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Hi everyone,

I want share with you 

I found this, I like it and do you like it? 

Love, Channy \m/_

What is it to be deaf?

 Hi Everyone!

I'm thinking about myself and wrote poem about "what is it to be deaf?" I hope anyone trade to my life compare your? maybe you will understand what is it to be deaf?" like you or everyone have same issue and being human.

"What is it like to be deaf?"

people have asked me.

Deaf? Oh, hmm... how do I explain that?

Simple: I can't hear.

No, wait... it is much more than that.

It is similar to a goldfish in a bowl,

Always observing things going on.

People talking at all times.

It is like a man on his own island

Among foreigners.

Isolation is no stranger to me.

Relatives say hi and bye

But I sit for 5 hours among them

Taking great pleasure at amusing babies

Or being amused by TV.

Reading books, resting, helping out with food.

Natural curiosity perks up

Upon seeing great laughter, crying, anger.

Inquiring only to meet with a "Never mind" or

"Oh, it's not important".

Getting a summarized statement

Of the whole day.

I'm supposed to smile to show my happiness.

Little do they know how truly miserable I am.

People are in control of language usage,

I am at loss and really uncomfortable!

Always feeling like an outsider

Among the hearing people,

Even though it was not their intention.

Always assuming that I am part of them

By my physical presence, not understanding

The importance of communication.

Facing the choice between Deaf Event weekend

or a family reunion.

Facing the choice between the family commitment

And Deaf friends.

I must make the choices constantly,

Any wonder why I choose Deaf friends???

I get such great pleasure at the Deaf clubs,

Before I realize it, it is already 2:00 am,

Whereas I anxiously look at the clock

Every few minutes at the Family Reunion.

With Deaf people, I feel so normal,

Our communication flows back and forth.

Catch up with little trivials, our daily life,

Our frustration in the bigger world,

Seeking the mutual understanding,

Contented smiles and laughter are musical.

So magical to me,

So attuned to each other's feelings.

True happiness is so important.

I feel more at home with Deaf people

Of various color, religion, short or tall.

Than I do among my own hearing relatives.

And you wonder why?

Our language is common.

We understand each other.

Being at loss of control

Of the environment that is communication,

People panic and retreat to avoid

Deaf people are like the plague.

But Deaf people are still human beings

With dreams, desires, and needs

To belong, just like everyone else.

Love, Channy \m/_

countdown to confidence!

Your life: Countdown to confidence


"Everyone keep telling you to start the year off strong" here's how

Your 5- day plan

1 Day- list your strengths jot down fine thing you like about yourself(suck as how you're a great friend) then put the list inside the front cover of note boo for instant boost each day.

2 Day- set an easy goal for the first eek of school or work like sign up for do something fitness excerise or else, chorus mini accomplishment help  you realize that bigger ones like snagging a part in the school or work.  really are within read

3 Day-  get a mani with mom or grab dad for pizza.
setting this thing time with the mind with your family always behind you this will give strength  one classes or work start and thing get totally stressful.

4 Day- Say like least
Practice talking to a mirror, try not to say um or like: speak in a loud.clear ton, and keep your shoulder back. When you talk like you believe in yourself, people will begin to take you more seriously.

5 Day- say thankful
just three thing you're grateful for and each night, odd three more. focus on thing that make you happy teaches you to think postivily and feel good, Which is the key to real confidence.


Love, Channy \m/_

Will be right back!

Hello everyone!

I'm sorry and I will be right back on this blogger, I'll miss you xoxo!

I'm going to go away on vacation right now , I'm going to try  to get away from the phone,computer etc.
I won't forget I will continuing on my blogger soon! I'll post soon!.

Love, Channy \m/_

ASL lesson

hi everyone!

ASL Lesson!

I always muttering myself to hurry walk fast to go bathroom in mall,office,school also everywhere, same time using my sign language "bathroom" everyone kept stare me and wondering what it is or what I said either? LOL 

Some people use a twisting movement instead of the side to side shake.  Either is fine.

If you are talking about ASL (American Sign Language), then the entire sentence for "I have to go to the bathroom" in ASL can be used by merely using the one word sign for 'bathroom'.

1. This sign is made by using a 'T' handshape with your dominant hand. Using the 'T' handshape, you hold it in the air, about as high as your chest area.

1a. Hold your hand / the sign about 4 - 6 inches away from your chest/body area and from your wrist, simply shake the 'T' handshape.

In essence, you are 'just' signing the sign 'Bathroom' (or 'toilet'), but the rest of the sentence "I have to go to the _____" are all already understood with the context of your facial expression(s) and possible dance motions. 

Love,channy \m/_

Change your label

"One mean insult can feel like it defines you "

Let me explains that how you see yourself is totally up to you.

At some point, we all end up on the receiving end of an awful insult. Maybe you're called the fat as your body, mature or zit face after a major breakout. it doesn't matter if  it's a joke or how hard you laugh it off- other people's taunts have a way of invading our minds, so each time we look in the mirror, it's like we're holding a magnifying  glass to our imperfections and they become all we see

Unfortunately, even as we out grow our labels the damage has been done and we can still let them define us. you might not even realize it, but these labels could be holding you back from doing what you really what to do. Maybe you act shy in class or a little timid around guys because somewhere inside you like the zit face that no one wants to talk to (even if your skin has clean for years!)
when you're internalized the label, it hurt you over and over.

So just like you'd never be caught dead using your first "screen name" ____________
it's time to unload those other labels that no longer define you and coming up with ones represent you now,the next time you find yourself not saying what you really want to say or avoiding eye contract with the hot guy at Starbuck because you still feel like a girl who isn't pretty enough or perfect enough realize that you get choose who you are from now on

"this month's goal"

I vow to change the labels other gave me and replace them with positive ones.

How to do it: create labels that you like come up with ones that celebrate your favorite features and remind you of all the things you're capable of achieving. ( if you have trouble, ask friends for held then give her a few great labels in the return.)

Stop say literally- out loud when you start obsessing over a flaw instead focus on features you love and play them up embraces what make you feel unique.

Think gorgeous tape your best picture to your mirror when you see yourself looking hot everyday you'll atomically start to think of yourself way.

Live a little luxe- give yourself a manicure or splurge on earring or shopping that make you feel great threading yourself well will help you feel beauty you are and enjoy it.

My experience past: When I feel same thing make me feel hurt or insult etc.
"boney or skinny," that's everyone called me after eighth grade high school open tour trip had left my clothes been style creative. I love my gorgeous cute style now but because of that one word I spent years trying to tame them no matter. how I feel great I looked, I always saw myself as the girl with bad hair also great style clothes but not being skinny girl.

"WORDS"-short film

Hi everyone!!

I watched the "Words-" that's beautiful short film. "Words" is story about communicate their  conversation begins awkwardly but slowly appears to blossom into romance but the difference between silence. hope u watch and enjoy it.  share us with your thought about this "words" short film/

Psst! I love it and I'm fan of Russell Harvard!!!!! therefore he is so so handsome! am I crazy? maybe I but I know he is great actor!.


Love,Channy \m/_